Thursday, August 9, 2007

How the Days Come

Ok so today is pretty boring at work and so this means it is blogging time.

Today's topic is relationships.


I am in a great relationship with a wonderful young lady. She is everything I wanted in someone I would spend the rest of my life with (give or take some aspects). Two things that she lacks and I thought would be a big deal is that she does not know hip hop or movies like I do. The reason why I ended up loving that about her more than not is because I get to share a lot more of myself with her.

With this one, I feel I have been given a chance to do better, be a much greater man. She is strong, which in turn makes me strong. She is focused and it makes me focused. Though our paths are different, we are definitely finding some middle ground to meet up and reach the a similar goal including raising a family and being involved in something to help minority communities.

With that said. Let me list my personal gripes that I have with myself and maybe I will be able to work on them if I can see them in front of me.
1) I am not stable (mentally or financially). Emotionally I think I am good, not the best, but good.
2) I am broke.
3) I procrastinate.
4) I am scatterbrained. There are so many things I want to do and yet I find no time to do them. Which leads me to my next issue.
5) Problems with prioritizing.

Well there are the 5 main points that I need to work on in order to build a stable and worthwhile future with the one I adore.

My future blogs will still be random but in them I hope I will be able to speak on how I am coming along with fixing these issues within myself.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Yeah I'd like to kick your ass a little about #3 and #4 but hey your human. Sweetie we are all broke, so that shouldn't even be mentioned. You sound all extra in love and stuff..awwwwwwwwwww....

You and your girl are not perfect. Imperfections are what make people interesting, no? I think so Perfect people are BORING.....I bet Perfect people have sex in the missionary position only....hmmm.....that gave me a blog idea...